Asking
family and friends for help can be an awkward and difficult
thing to do. In fact, many caregivers avoid asking for help
and end up trying to do everything themselves. You may find
that once you take the step and ask someone for help, it is
much easier than you expected. Many times, family members
and friends are willing, but just don't know how to help.
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Sit
down with them in person or find a quiet time to speak
on the phone |
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Review
the list of patient needs |
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Specifically
discuss areas in which you think they could help |
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Ask
them if they would like to participate |
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Inquire
about whether they would like to help out in a particular
area |
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Clearly
explain the tasks and what they could do to help |
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Make
sure that they understand exactly what would be helpful
for you, as well as the patient |
| "Jane,
I am having some trouble finding time to do everything
I need to do to take care of my mom. I could really use
some help with the cooking, watching her when I have to
go pick up the kids from school, and doing errands. If
you would be willing, I think you could help with the
errands since you live nearby and pass the shopping center
on your way home from work. Do you think you would be
able to help out in this way?" |
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