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Caring
for a loved one with AIDS is no easy task. Not only does
it require physically caring for someone you love at home,
but it also means facing your own concerns about the diagnosis
and eventual outcome of the disease. Most people fear an
AIDS diagnosis in spite of the fact that the disease can
generally be treated.
Caregivers of AIDS patients are often their partners. Hearing
that your partner has AIDS may make you fear for your own
health. It is also a difficult diagnosis because of its
stigma. There is the stigma related to the fact that AIDS
is generally transmitted sexually or through IV drug use.
Many people feel judged because their loved one has AIDS.
Then there is the stigma attached to having a potentially
life-threatening disease. This makes people uncomfortable,
and some friends and family can become distant. At a time
when you need it most, you may find it hard to get support.
Here is more information
on how to get support and take care of yourself.
Physical
and emotional care can be time-consuming and exhausting.
Many caregivers of people with AIDS have concerns about
their loved one's illness and future health prospects. Practical
concerns, such as worries about financial issues and time
management, are also common.
Learning more about AIDS is an essential first step for
caregivers because of widespread myths and fears about the
disease. People are afraid of "catching" AIDS and, even
today, a diagnosis of AIDS can feel like a death sentence.
It can be difficult to learn about a disease when you do
not know where to start. This section provides general information
about AIDS, including what caregivers can do to help their
loved ones.
Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome (AIDS) occurs when infection
with the Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) destroys the body's
natural protection from illness. The immune system weakens to the
point where it can be invaded by "opportunistic" infections and
certain cancers. These infections would not cause problems for healthy
people. For people with AIDS, they may cause serious or even life-threatening
problems.
Blood is an important part of the body's immune system. White blood
cells help protect people from disease. Certain white blood cells
called T cells perform a crucial role. Some of the T cells are "helper"
cells that signal other cells to do their jobs. HIV attacks and
destroys the "helper" T cells. When enough cells are destroyed,
the immune system no longer works and the patient has AIDS.
(Adapted from information provided by the American
Society of Clinical Pathologists, 2001.)
In
the United States, there have been more than 700,000 reported
cases of AIDS since 1981. The Centers for Disease Control
and Prevention (CDC) estimates that as many as 900,000 Americans
may have HIV. AIDS is now the fifth leading cause of death
among people between the ages of 25 and 44 in this country.
(Adapted from the National Institutes of Health
HIV/AIDS fact sheet, December, 2000.)
Unfortunately, there are many myths about how HIV is spread.
Your loved one's family members and friends may wonder if
they can "catch" HIV. The disease is contagious but it cannot
be spread from person to person through the air. It is usually
spread through sexual contact with an infected partner. HIV
can also be spread through contact with infected blood. This
can occur when drug users share needles or syringes.
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Food
utensils |
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Towels
and bedding |
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Swimming
pools |
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Telephones |
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Toilet
seats |
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Mosquito
bites |
Studies
have shown that HIV is not spread through these types of
casual contact. Although the risks of "deep" kissing are
not clear, there is no evidence that the virus is spread
through modest contact with saliva, tears, or sweat, or
through contact with urine or feces.
Some risk factors increase the chance of getting HIV. Reducing
them can lessen the risk of HIV and AIDS.
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Sharing
drug needles or syringes. |
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Sexual
contact (including oral, anal or vaginal sex) with someone
who is HIV positive or whose HIV status is unknown without
the protection of a latex male condom. |
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Having
another sexually transmitted disease such as syphilis,
herpes, chlamydial infection, gonorrhea or bacterial
vaginosis seems to increase the risk of being infected
by HIV during unprotected sexual contact with an infected
partner. |
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Babies
can be infected by an HIV-positive mother during pregnancy,
birth and breast feeding. |
Many
people have no symptoms of HIV. Some have flu-like symptoms a month
or two after getting the virus. These may include fever, headache,
tiredness, and enlarged lymph nodes (these are organs of the immune
system in the neck and groin). These symptoms usually go away before
they are identified as HIV.
As the disease progresses, your loved one may develop other symptoms.
HIV infected patients may get yeast infections (oral or vaginal)
that do not go away or that occur often. Frequent and severe herpes
infections that cause mouth, genital, or anal sores are also common.
Herpes zoster (shingles) is more likely to occur in infected patients.
Other pulmonary infections (such as pneumocystis carinii pneumonia)
or so-called atypical mycobacterial infections, can be serious for
your loved one. Women may get pelvic inflammatory disease that does
not respond to treatment. The virus may attack the nervous system
(nerves, spinal cord or brain) and produce a variety of symptoms
ranging from tingling in the feet and trouble walking, to memory
disturbances.
AIDS-related cancers include those caused by viruses such as Kaposi's
sarcoma and cervical cancer, or cancers of the immune system called
lymphomas. These cancers tend to be harder to treat in AIDS patients.
Symptoms
of Kaposi's Sarcoma
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round
brown, reddish, or purple spots on the skin or in the
mouth |
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spots
tend to be darker in dark-skinned people |
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large
lymph nodes or "swollen glands" that may be enlarged
for more than three months |
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frequent
fevers and sweats |
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skin
rashes or flaky skin that does not go away |
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short-term
memory loss |
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slow
growth or frequent illness in children |
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cough
and shortness of breath |
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seizures
and lack of coordination |
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difficult
or painful swallowing |
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confusion
and forgetfulness |
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nausea,
stomach cramps, diarrhea, and/or vomiting that do not
go away |
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vision
loss |
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unexplained
weight loss |
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fatigue
or unusual tiredness |
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severe
headaches |
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in
children: conjunctivitis (pink eye), ear infections,
and tonsillitis |
(Adapted
from information provided by The National Institute of Allergy
and Infectious Diseases, 1999.)
Here
is more information on how you can help your loved one with
fatigue or other symptoms.
If someone you love has these symptoms and you think they
may have HIV, encourage them to see a health care practitioner
immediately. There are various ways to make an HIV diagnosis.
Tests
for HIV
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ELISA
antibody blood test |
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Western
Blot antibody blood test |
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Blood
test for the presence of HIV |
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The
antibody tests look for HIV disease-fighting proteins (antibodies).
These do not usually reach levels that can be detected until
one, three, or even six months after infection. Early detection
is important because patients are particularly infectious
during the early stage of the disease and can easily pass
it on to others. Detection also allows for earlier diagnosis
and treatment. Anonymous testing facilities and home-based
test kits are available for confidential results.
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Blood
test for the presence of T cells. According to the Centers
for Disease Control, patients with less then 200 T cells
per cubic millimeter of blood have AIDS (1,000 is a
healthy level). |
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The
diagnosis of an AIDS-related cancer. |
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The
diagnosis of other clinical conditions, mostly opportunistic
infections which include fungi, viruses, parasites,
and bacterial infections such as pneumonia and tuberculosis. |
Hearing
that your loved one has AIDS marks a big change in the disease
process. The potentially life-threatening nature of the
disease becomes more real. You may worry about whether your
loved one will get sicker or suffer. If this happens, you
may want to take care of him/her but wonder if you can.
There is so much for you to think about, yet you might be
reluctant to talk to your loved one about your worries.
It is important that you get support when you feel like
this. Here
is more information on
how to get support and take care of yourself.
The
good news is that HIV and its complications often can be
treated. With proper treatment, most infected patients can
lead relatively normal lives for many years. Even with the
onset of AIDS, symptoms can be greatly diminished by treatment.
Treatment options include:
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Antiviral
therapy known as antiretroviral drugs |
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Treatments
for infections |
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Treatments
for cancers |
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Treatments
for symptoms |
Antiretroviral drugs slow the progress of HIV because fewer
HIV cells are formed. These are the three classes of antiretroviral
drugs:
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Nucleoside
Reverse Transcriptase Inhibitors (NRTIs) such as zidovudine
(AZT), didanosine (ddl), zalcitabine (ddC), stavudine
(d4T), lamivudine (3TC), Comvivir (AZT+ 3TC) and abvacavir
(Ziagen). |
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Protease
Inhibitors (PIs) such as saquinavir (Invirase and Fortovase),
ritonavir (Norvir), indinavir (Crixivan) and nelfinavir
(Viracept). |
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Non-nucleoside
Reverse Transcriptase Inhibitors such as nevirapine
(Viramune), delavirdine (Rescriptor) and efavirenz (Sustiva). |
The
preferred treatment is a triple drug combination called Highly Active
Antiretroviral Therapy (HAART).
(Adapted from guidelines provided by the HIV/AIDS
Treatment Information Service, April 1999.)
There can be side effects from treatment:
| Antiretroviral
Therapy Side Effects |
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Fever
and infection |
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Nausea,
diarrhea and vomiting |
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Fatigue
or tiredness |
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Headaches |
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Skin
rash |
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The
therapy can be very expensive. |
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Patients
with low viral counts may be less careful because they
think the disease can no longer be spread. This is incorrect
- This is incorrect. Anyone infected with HIV, no matter
how low their counts, can spread it to others. |
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Treatment
using antiretroviral drugs is complicated. If patients
do not take the drugs correctly, their viral counts
can go up and/or their HIV can become resistant to the
medication. |
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Drugs
may bring on diabetes, make existing diabetes worse,
or cause hyperglycemia (high blood sugar). |
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Bleeding
may increase in people with hemophilia types A or B. |
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Some
patients have weight gain and loss in different parts
of their bodies. |
(Adapted
from information provided by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration,
July-August 1999.)
Treatment
of secondary infections and disease complications is as important
as treating the AIDS virus. These secondary complications can be
quite serious for your loved one.
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Radiation
and chemotherapy are used to treat Kaposi's sarcoma. |
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Antimicrobial
agents are used to treat many opportunistic infections
such as pneumonia, tuberculosis, and herpes. Continuous
treatment is sometimes required since these infections
tend to reoccur. |
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There
has been some success treating Cytomegalovirus (CMV)
infections with medication. These infections can cause
AIDS patients to lose their eyesight. |
(Adapted
from Harrison's Principles of Internal Medicine, 14th Edition.
Edited by Fauci, A.S., Braunwald, E., Isselbacher, K.J.,
et al. New York: McGraw-Hill, 1998.)
Be aware of the symptoms of HIV/AIDS and the side effects
of treatment. You can help reduce and prevent them. You
can also help by knowing when to contact your loved one's
health care team. Here
is more information on
how and when to effectively communicate with your loved
one's health care team.
Your loved one may experience pain related to AIDS, caused
by treatment, or for other, unrelated reasons. Abdominal
pain, throat pain and headache are some of the most common
types of pain experienced. You can help by making sure the
patient gets proper treatment for pain when it occurs.
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Find
medical practitioners who understand your loved one's
AIDS-related pain. |
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Ensure
regular visits to AIDS pain specialists. |
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Ask
questions of doctors and discuss your concerns. |
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Administer
pain medication as prescribed. |
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Offer
to massage sore or painful areas if your physician approves. |
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Encourage
the use of relaxation techniques to relieve stress and
decrease pain. Here is more information on relaxation techniques. |
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Find
ways to avoid and manage stress in the household. |
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Distract
your loved one with activities he/she enjoys. |
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Watch
for signs of pain or other discomfort. |
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Help
the patient rate and record his/her pain in a daily
pain journal. |
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Contact
your medical practitioner if pain is not relieved by
medication. |
More information on pain.
Clinical
trials are research studies that evaluate new treatments.
Those who take part in clinical trials are some of the first
to receive and benefit from new approaches to HIV/AIDS therapy.
These treatments may have been tested with good results. Patients
in trials are watched closely by physicians and researchers.
Here are resource centers you can
contact for more information on how clinical trials and HIV/AIDS
research might benefit the patient.
Complementary and alternative therapies are treatments that
are not routinely used by practitioners of traditional medicine.
Some (such as relaxation, visualization, and acupuncture)
are so commonly tried that they are really now considered
mainstream. They are used in conjunction with traditional
therapies. Others are outside of usual medical practice. It
is important to research and understand the risks and benefits
of these therapies. In addition, it is important to let the
patient's medical team know about the use of complementary
techniques.
The Bastyr
University AIDS Research Center is a good source of information
on complementary and alternative therapies for HIV and AIDS.
Here is more information on this organization
and other helpul AIDS resources.
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Ask
the patient's doctor for medication to help with nausea
and vomiting. |
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With
nausea, feed your loved one as if he/she had the flu: |
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Avoid
fatty, fried, or spicy foods. |
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Prepare
food for the patient when you can. |
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Serve
food at room temperature or cold. |
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Encourage
your loved one to eat even when his/her appetite is
poor. |
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Help
the patient keep his/her mouth clean; brush teeth at
least twice a day. |
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Encourage
the use of relaxation techniques to relieve stress and
decrease symptoms. |
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Distract
your loved one with activities he/she enjoys to decrease
pain or other symptoms. |
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Make
sure your loved one gets plenty of rest. |
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Help
rate and record your loved one's pain and/or fatigue
in a journal. |
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Help
the patient take his/her medications in the correct
way. |
Here is more information on how to treat fatigue, nausea,
vomiting, or skin problems.
National
Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases
Office of Communications and Public Liaison
Building 31, Room 7A-50
31 Center Drive MSC 2520
Bethesda, MD 20892-2520
This is the primary National Institutes of Health organization
for research on AIDS. It provides understandable information
presented in a format that is easy to follow, including
information on treatment,
general disease information, and other HIV/AIDS information.
The AIDS Clinical Trials Information Service
(800) TRIALS-A (800-874-2572)
(800) 243-7012 (TDD/Deaf Access)
This service provides information about Food and Drug
Administration-approved HIV-related clinical trials being
conducted around the United States. It operates from 9 a.m.
to 7 p.m. Eastern Time, Monday through Friday. Spanish-speaking
specialists are available.
HIV/AIDS Treatment Information Service
(800) HIV-0440 (1-800-448-0440)
(800) 243-7012 (TDD/Deaf Access)
This service provides information on federally-approved
treatment guidelines on HIV/AIDS. It operates from 9 a.m.
to 7 p.m. Eastern Time, Monday through Friday. Spanish-speaking
specialists are available.
National Prevention Information Network
(800) 458-5231
(800) 243-7012 (TDD/Deaf Access).
Contact this service to get materials for adolescents with
HIV or for more information about adolescents and HIV.
Centers
for Disease Control and Prevention: American
Social Health Association
(800) 342-AIDS
(800) 344-7432 - Spanish
(800) 243-7889 - TTY Service
This Website provides answers to frequently asked questions
and tips on how to live with HIV/AIDS.
Bastyr University AIDS Research Center
This center is funded by NIH's National Institute of Allergy
and Infectious Disease (NIAID) and the National Center on
Complementary and Alternative Medicine (NCCAM). It is dedicated
to exploring complementary and alternative healing practices
for HIV and AIDS.
MEDLINEplus
Health Information
MEDLINE is a service of the National Library of Medicine
that provides excellent links to Websites for a variety
of topics related to HIV and AIDS.
U.S.
Food and Drug Administration: HIV and AIDS Activities
Office of Special Health Issues
This site is a good source of treatment-related information
including information on treatment side effects.
American Society of Clinical Pathologists
This site provides understandable disease information
presented in a format that is easy to follow.
AIDS Education Global Information System (AEGIS)
(949) 248-5843
This site claims to be the largest HIV/AIDS Website
in the world and is updated hourly. Although it can be difficult
to navigate, it contains information or links to information
on every facet of the disease, including patient resources.
It also offers a section for newly-diagnosed individuals
called "The Basics."
About.com
This is a human Internet directory with comprehensive
HIV/AIDS information compiled by a professional editor.
It offers links to a host of information, including online
bulletin boards and chat rooms.
The Body: An HIV and AIDS Information Resource
This Website provides HIV/AIDS information in over
250 topic areas. It also provides an "Ask the Expert" service
and bulletin boards on many AIDS-related topics, including
some for caregivers.
Caring for Someone with AIDS at Home: A Guide
This online guide was developed by the US Department
of Health and Human Services. It offers helpful information
for the caregiver such as how to provide care and how to
protect against infection.
Español/Spanish Information
Centros Para el Control y la Prevención de Enfermedades
The
Body: Información en Español
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